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Education & Curiosity
You're probably at the age where you've been in school for a while and might be wondering "what's this all about really?" So here are a few thoughts about why education is so important and why your mum and I will unapologetically push you to make the most of every learning opportunity. First and foremost, education is the one thing no one can take away from you. It remains with you for life and under every circumstance. The kind of education your mum and I will try and provid
Jun 103 min read


Get on to get on
All things being equal, most people prefer to hang out and make friends with people who are pleasant and easy to get on with. This is...
Aug 23, 20241 min read


The Status Game
I need to tell you about this game we play as people. Everyone plays it, everyone has always played it, and probably always will. You have already probably started playing it without even realising. It's call the the Status Game. What is it? Status is the social position someone assigns us in their own mind after judging us - using whatever they know about us. And we in turn send out signals which help them to do this. It's not necessarily a bad thing either. Humans have lear
Jul 24, 20245 min read


Do something hard
We live in one of the greatest times in history. Never have so many people had life so good. Life today has luxuries unimagined even 20 years ago - and this allows us to live extremely comfortable lives. But you could argue, we are too comfortable. Especially those of us who are blessed with enough food, nice homes, good schools and with family and friends to care about us. These are all things to be encouraged and celebrated of course, but when does comfortable become bad f
Jul 2, 20242 min read


Dealing with assholes and bullies
Growing up, there are going to be difficult people who you will need to deal with even though you don't like or trust them. They may be a classmate, they may be a good friend's parent, they may even be a teacher. Some of them are going be awful. Even worse, some of them are going to be deliberately awful. For no good reason. Say mean things. Do mean things. Want to fight you. Push you when you aren't watching. Mess with you stuff. Put you down in front of others. Tell others
Jun 20, 20245 min read


Who to trust
Here are the rules we taught you as a little kid to stay safe - and they still hold true: You trust immediate family (me, your mum, all your grandparents, and Uncle Mike) You can seek help from teachers, police, ambulance and firemen If no-one else is around, you can seek help from an adult you feel safe with. BUT you REFUSE and TELL someone immediately if: Someone makes you feel uncomfortable or bad Asks you to do something you know or think is wrong Tries to force you into
Jun 20, 20241 min read


Who cares about art anyway?
Art might seem like a useless topic - it's not practical, a lot is kept in big, boring galleries, and some art doesn't even look like art...
Jun 7, 20242 min read


Live & let live
You are probably going to come across others in your life who believe they are always right, and if you disagree with them, then you are...
May 3, 20241 min read




Default to kindness
Hopefully you have heard about the importance of kindness from us many times already, but it's worth mentioning again.
Apr 11, 20242 min read
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